Everyone has different expectations in a relationship. Some people want safe, they want someone that they know will always be there. Other people might want romance, and others? Well maybe they want excitement and adventure! There will never be a one list that lets you know you are with the right person. This is how I Know I am. everyones list is a little different. This is how I knew that I was truly in love with my significant other.
1. you can picture a future.
The idea of happily ever after no longer scares you. You can imagine your wedding day, but beyond that you can imagine the happy years that follow.
2. You have similar values.
This is not necessarily religion and politics although that can be included. My key things are:
- How to raise kids
- Moral values
- marriage?
3. You can argue
there are a few things that separate a good argument from a bad argument.
here is my criteria for a good argument:
- When you argue you are making progress. you are not just yelling at each other to yell at each other. In order for this to happen you have to listen to each other and trust each other.
- you also have to understand that fighting is a natural thing but you cant walk away angry.
4. You have separate things.
Its always nice to do stuff together. however, you cant always be together. You need separate things. separate friends and activities, without any hard feelings.
5. You have things to do together.
Although spending time apart is a must you also should have things to do together. Find activities that you both enjoy! movies, concerts, hiking. It doesnt matter what it is as long as you both can have fun doing it.
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